A true life story …………
please I really need people’s opinion and advice on this , I will be on comment section thanks dear ..
Am about to lose my marriage of 9yrs now , am a young ambitious and hard working woman , I am in my early 30s ..
Straight to the point , my husband business collapse this year January and since then he has been struggling to stand again upon that he still provide 100% in the house , sometimes he will ask me to give him days that he will get all the things we need in the house if he doesn’t have the money at the moment trust me he will definitely get all of it .
He was the one that train me in school then after our marriage he opened a big shop for me which is generating a lot of money now ,but he never ask me to support in the house ..he takes care of everything alone and never complained..I told my big sis that I want to boost my husband business with 8m naira she started shouting how can u give ur husband money when our only brother that recently returned from Malaysia need money to start up business, mean while our Dad invested his money twice on him but he wasted it all in the name of impressing people.
I gave my brother the 8m last month to start up something I didn’t know how my husband get to find out , he wake me up in the middle of the night 4 days ago to ask me whether am the person that gave my brother money I was shocked, later I said no . I didn’t know that he got the information from the right source… Yesterday evening I found him crying inside our bedroom I ask him what is the problem he just looked at me and ask me who is he to me , I said of cos ur my husband.. he said No that he’s a total stranger to me , that I been watching him struggling all this while without doing anything immediately I felt very bad and started crying he left the house up till now I have not seen him .
I have been calling his number he doesn’t pick this morning I went to his shop it was locked ???? I now ask his very good friend about him he said that when my husband called him last night he was crying then when he tried to know what’ the matter is he hang the call , he called him several times but he didn’t pick up that’s all ….
Am totally confuse now I don’t know what to do pls I really need people’s opinion and advice.thanks ..
Pls no insult I know am a terrible person but pls you guys advice is what I need now.